Hello, my name is Anita. I decided to do a Blog bécause I wantéd to give an honest perspective from middle âge, African American female. With sincerity and transparency. I have been married for 28 years, one child, three awesome grandsons; who I love dearly. Life is tough, the World is wicked, and each day seems to be worse as time goes on. We as people have become more and more insensitive to our fellows brethren.